Just because.......

Just because :
1. your family sucks
2. your husband sucks
3. your in-laws sucks
4. your job sucks
5. your friend sucks
6. your neighbor sucks
7. your gf sucks
8. your parents sucks
9. your car sucks

basically your life sucks, doesn't mean mine sucks too !

So stop complaining if you want to have a great life !

You are what you think.

If you think your life sucks, then it is sucks.

I want to have a beautiful life, so I think my life is beautiful.
1. Wonderful parents
2. Wonderful sibling and sis in law
3. Wonderful husband
4. Wonderful in-laws
5. Wonderful puppy
6. Wonderful friends
7. Wonderful neighbors
8. Wonderful car
9. And wonderful job once I have it.

Life is just so wonderful !

Honey, Let's do road trip to the Moon a.k.a Honeymoon !

Married ?! YAY !

On August 20th, Husband and I (yes, I have a husband !) driving all the way to San Fransisco, on our Road Trip Honeymoon holiday (uber combo!)

1st night we drove all the way from Seattle to Eugene. We left home at 3pm, and reach our camp site at 00.00 !
We got bad traffic around Tacoma which caused 6 hrs trip to become 8hrs !

We didn't set the tent, we just arrange the mattress, brush our teeth, and just sleep immediately, snuggled inside our sleeping bag. Tired.

Our bed

the view at 7am

The campground

Second day we continue the trip.

Our next stop is Oakland, to see Dan, Bill's friend from college.

On the way, I drove and TADAAAAAA !!!! I got stopped by a police and got a speeding ticket !!

Speed limit was 65mph, and I was 79mph (Eventhough Bill said it was 82mph)

Regardless what my speed was, I was all shaky and scared and I cried after the cop was gone :((

However, the view was really beautiful

Crossing the bridge, getting into Oakland

Finally, Dan's house

Russel (white), Lola (brown), Dan (with the beard), Husband (facing the fridge)

Russel, the cutest dog ever (not in size!)

We went out with Dan and Lauren, his gf to watch The Inception. I watched the movie before I left for US, so for sure, I slept a little bit (and so does Lauren), and chat with my dad during the movie. 

We stayed at Dan's house

The next day, was SUNNY ! and HOT !

The four of us went out to see baseball game, then we went to Lake Temescal to cool off.

Thank you for SPF's to safe my skin :)

Dan and Lauren

Lake Temescal 

Dan & Lauren

Husband & I

That night we ate at Jayakarta Restaurant, which is obviously is an Indonesian Restaurant, with MEIKE ! and of course Dan and Lauren & Husband.

And YES, I met MEIKE, my gf from college. The last time I saw her was in 2006, before I left for China.

Bill sent us back to Meike's place,in San Francisco, where I will spent the next 3 nights in, since he is going on a hike with Dan.

Below are Meike and I, during my stay in SF :

From SF, we headed to Six Flags in Vallejo.

We bought tickets online, etc, but when we arrived, it is CLOSED !!!! :(

They only open on weekends, and they don't even bother to mention it on the web when we purchase the ticket !

So we head to Calistoga instead, and pamper ourself by getting mud bath, and soak ourselves in hotspring pool. HEAVEN !

The next day we head to Redding, CA, where we gonna have our wedding pictures taken by my college friend, Tessy.

I brought some Indonesian spices with me and share some pempek which I bought from Meike's friend with her.

Our photos, taken by Tessy :

Bill, wiping off my lipgloss after we kissed :D

The next day, we drove 10-11 hours back to Seattle.

We miss our nice shower and our comfortable bed, and our little puppy, and of course our mom.

It was a fun trip.

A unique honeymoon, with bill and friends.

I am happy

Armpit hair VS Nipple

 

Thursday evening, in the bathroom, in front of the mirror, holding a tweezer, one arm in the air, he walked by, so I said : "why woman should have armpit hair ?"
He replied : " why man should have nipples ??"

Then I thought, fair enough.
and I continue doing what I was doing, which is "cleaning" armpit area from HAIR !
When I was doing it, I think again about the short conversation we had.
Then I thought : NOT FAIR !

At least nipples is useful, even for man.

So, I walked out to him and said "At least, nipples is useful to arouse people"
He said "Armpit hair keeps your armpit warm"
Me : "Still, it's useless"

Summer lalalalala in Seattle !

Here in Seattle where I live,

summer only last for 2 weeks (according to people around me !)

So, when the sun shines, and when it reach 30C ++, I am so happy, and I just want to go out.

This is the weather where I belong.

Warm and Sunny 

We usually go to the lake, to cool off a little bit, and we took Muffin with us.

Below is some pictures from the hot day in Seattle 

in the end of the street is Lake Washington

Shallow water is my friend :)

Muffin with the chairs 

Water was nice and cool (NOT cold)

Muffin

Husband

Lake Washington is H.U.G.E and deep

I promise not to jump into the water anymore without any life jacket.

I did it earlier this week, and I was so scared !

I am not a good swimmer, and the waves was so big, and I was so scared.

Swimming to the dock takes a huge effort, and when I finally reach the dock, climbed up and stand on it, my legs got really weak.

I was super scared.

Shallow water only, or swimming pool for me.

Tulisan

1.  3 Agustus, 2010, 15.21 WIB

bening matamu 
pancarkan kesedihan
tak pernah terlihat
selama ini

senyum pedihmu
lukiskan air matamu
perihnya hatimu
menyentuh batinku

sungguh mati aku tidak
bisa meninggalkan mu
walaupun kau dekap aku
ampun aku bila kini
yang terkuak hanya perih
yang mungkin kan menghantui
hidupmu hidupku

detak jantungmu
tegaskan perih hatimu
dan perih hatiku
hidupmu, hidupmu hidupku

2. 6 Agustus, 2010, 11.43WIB

kau membuatku hidup
kau membuatku tertawa
kau hadirkan kehangatan di dalam hati
kau ajar aku mencinta

rindu aku padamu
rindu tawamu,
rindukan belai dan sayangmu
rindu hangat pelukmu

aku ingin kau ada
aku ingin kau disisi
jangan pergi
jangan pernah pergi

aku tahu tidaklah baik aku berharap tentang kita
karena masa depan bukan milik kita
tapi aku tahu, di kehidupan selanjutnya aku ingin dengan kamu
mungkinkah ?

bila derita hidup mendera
datanglah padaku
ceritakan semua
aku mungkin tak dapat memelukmu
tapi aku akan mendengarkan

bila kau bahagia
pergilah yang jauh, nikmati kebahagiaanmu
aku bahagia untuk kamu.

aku tak mau lagi menangis
aku tak mau lagi bersedih bila ingat kamu
aku ingin tersenyum
karena kau membuatku bahagia

perihnya berpisah denganmu
sakitnya meninggalkan dirimu
akan kukubur dalam-dalam
walaupun kau jauh
tapi begitu dekat di hati
begitu hidup

masih bisa kurasakan kecupanmu
masih terasa hangat pelukmu
lembut belaimu

aku inginkan kau
sekarang
selamanya
seumur hidupku

cintailah aku
jauh di dalam hatimu
jangan pernah lupa
lanjutkan hidupmu...

dari aku, yang mencintaimu

*mengutip dari kutipan, yang pasti LEGAL !*

Married !

August 9th, 2010

4.30 PM

King County Courthouse, Bellevue

Groom : Bill Wynn

Bride : Tessa

Witnesses : Helen Frain & Mike Knox

Attendees : Zelah, Dennis, Sarah & Mike

Courthouse

We arrived early, so we were all waiting in the waiting room, for 15-20 mins, and of course, take some pictures :

Bill & his good friend, Mike

Bride and Groom 

Mrs Frain, Zelah & Dennis

with Bill and Me

Bill started to get super nervous !

And I got super scared !

And he stays cool with his ruffles shirt....mad love

But ! 4.30 arrived, and Judge Garrow is coming.

The witnesses and us should sign some papers 

I signed it

He signed it too !

Certificate of Marriage
SIGNED !!!

Next step is to say the vow....

we walk to this courtroom !

courtroom !!!

getting ready

gotta love my long hair

saying the vow

Done saying the vow !

Seal it with a Kiss

then smile... :p (I got teary eyed)

My new mom :)

New Family, I got a mom and a sister (and a HUSBAND !)

Mrs Frain and Mike, our witnesses

happy friends :D

We went home to get dinner together, korean BBQ !

IT was a fine day...

and now I'm a WIFE !

I have a HUSBAND !!!

How cool is that ??