I'm home...

I am back home
Current position: laying on my bed, with laptop

The past few days we meet up with friends,
Dinner with Marco, Ewa, Tarcy, Lloyd, Jay and Allen
follow by dinner with Michelle, Chase, Silvaria and Silvendiana

It was hard to say good bye to them.
Yesterday was the last day I saw Chase.
We hug tight and it was hard to let go.
Tears are building, and I hold it back.
No place for tears, because we will meet again someday.

Silva, Chase, Michelle and Silvendiana all come to my house, they help Silva to take some stuffs she still can use to live in Shanghai.
They left with tons of stuffs, they even need to taxi it home.
Chase got my little table and the microwave,
Silva got vacuum cleaner, lots of hanger and clothes clips, my bolster (I brought that all the way from Beijing), tons of spices, and clothes organizer.

I will miss them, in fact I already miss them !

As a good bye presents, Chase gave me a double sided embroidery, with a white cat on it, and Silva gave me a yellow La Pagayo wallet which I really wanted, and Michelle gave me a cute wall decoration, with couples on it.

 Me-Michelle-Chase-Silva

I highly appreciate the gifts :)
I love them.

So, yeah, I'm back home and this will be the last 2 months in my life as a single.
Soon I will be married and became Mrs Wynn.

Friday night....

This Friday....
I got nothing to do after work.
My landlord canceled the dinner which he planned 2 days ago, because he got to work overtime.
That means.....EMPTY !!!
and with less than 30 days left in Shanghai, means I don't want to go home !!!

So I asked Silva what her plan is (which is nothing), and we end up spend our friday night together.

We ate at Tasty, a steak restaurant.
It's some kind of a fine dining restaurant, since they have everything from appetizer-main course-dessert, in a set menu, with various of prices, ranged from 38-128RMB.
Silva treat me, and we both get the RMB 68 set.
and it was great !
She got salad, and I got soup.
Both of us got special steak (medium) --> taste good !
and for dessert, she get a green tea ice cream thing, and I get the french black coffee jelly
She drank english tea, i got american coffee.

And we talked for hours, and I was so happy.
I really wish that she joined us 2 years ago instead of 2 months ago.

She is so nice, and smart and funny.
I know she is worried to be working on her own after I leave, but I believe she can do it.
She will get scolded, for sure, but she surely will be able to get through it, being smart like that.

I wish her all the best, and I'm so thankful to know her.

Silva, if u read this, I want u to know that U're great !

Happy friday !

Abusive Relationship !

On Monday, March 8, 2010, there's no man at all at the office, just 3 girls : me, CC and MW.
It is also the day when my colleague, CC got in a fight with her husband, PZ.

CC told me "Tessa, if PZ show up, don't open the door" (I sat in the reception seat, so I can see)
So, when I saw him, I immediately grab my cup and go to the pantry to get some water, so I don't need to open the door for him.
I heard the bell rang, and I just stay back in the pantry.
Somehow, CC must have let him in, and shortly I hear shouting on the meeting room.

I return to my seat (which is just beside the meeting room), and I saw PZ grab CC's eye glasses, and bang it to the corner table on the meeting room. Glasses is a history, pieces of broken plastic and glass are what's left behind. I didn't plan to get involved at all.

They were shouting, and I heard CC scream "call 911 !!", that's when I step into the meeting room.

Then I saw PZ hitting CC !!!!!!
and this is over the top, so I step in to separate them. At that time, MW was helping too.
I shout to PZ "You can't hit a girl !!!!"
I was standing in between CC and PZ, with my fist ready to hit him in the face if he try to hit CC again.
PZ told me to step out, I didn't care.
I press CC with my back to the wall, holding her arms down with my elbow,  MW was holding PZ's jacket and talk to him "don't fight...come on don't fight"
All the while PZ didn't care at all.

Dear God, it was intense !

They are arguing in Shanghai dialect, and I don't understand what's going on.
Till he finally left without a word.

After he left, I questioned CC, and she said she feels ok, nothing hurts.
The only visible wound was on her neck (when he strangled her, CC told me later on), and on her cheek bone near her left eyes (when he took her eyeglasses off)

That PZ is a stupid little piece of S**T !!!
I hate him so much (there I said it !!)
What kind of a man who hit a woman ??? Go to F**king HELL !!!

Hope CC could think better on what she should do with the marriage, which is only 6 months old.

Damn u, PZ !!!
how dare he......