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Monday, April 4, 2011

it is okay

During life, you will encounter a lot of people
And you develop relationship with them
you become close, and they became your friends
Some are best friends, good friends, old friends, study friends, and some are true friends.

As time goes by, you see things are different.
Maybe they grow so fast and you are not,
or you feel like you are growing, and they stay in the same place.
And you feel things changed.

You don't interact with them in the same way you did before.
Comments became irritating, insulting, hurting.
You got frustrated to share ideas, opinion, or even just being you,
 and sometimes you just don't want to say anything, to avoid arguments.
And then you came to a realization.
You've grown apart.

We are no longer in the same places.
We are no longer able to share a good conversation, without wanting to hurt each other.
We are no longer enjoy each other companion.
And it is okay.

The statement "friends are forever" is not true.
And if you count the amount of people you've became friends with,
you'll see that not all of them are still your friends today.
They may became enemies, or those who you consider as "People that I used to know"
And it is okay.

This doesn't mean that you have to hate them,
or to cut the relationship with them.
They can still be a friend,
or those people you used to know.
No one is to be blamed on.
It's just you go into a different direction.
You just have to accept that. 
Therefore words of jealousy won't hurt you.
Comments won't be irritating.

Just because you've known them for years,
and they were your best friends before,
doesn't mean they will be forever.
And it's fine. 
There is nothing wrong with it.
People change, and changes are good.

Because in life you will find a true friends.
True friends are there to stay.
Together you grow to become a better person.
True friends cherish each other, and be happy for each other, and mourn together.
True friends don't get jealous, or underestimate you.
True friends are there whenever, ready to catch you when you fall.
They are proud for your accomplishments.

This is an important understanding that I got today.
And I feel so much better.
I will be happy no matter what.
I have true friends, best friends, study partner, people that I used to know, etc

Life is great and growing is an essence of life !

May you all be happy.


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