The fear of having kids

Lots of people thought that having kids is scary.So they decided to postpone, wait wait and wait.

Me, as a baby craze myself, find it scary too sometimes.
But I don't think it will that scary.

I think it's wiser to have kids when u are younger (between 22-30).
The reason is simple.
U are young, and assuming that you are healthy.
U're still strong, physically and emotionally.
U are on ur productive age, means u can get a good job and earn a living.

What I scared of from having kids is all the never ending responsibility of taking care of them, feeding, diaper changing, sleepless night, messy house, etc.
But that's small thing, because behind that, there's huge thing which includes : love your kid no matter what, bring them up as a healthy, smart, happy, responsible kids. That's harder.

But I believe it can be reached if we teach them about discipline since they're young, let them know that the world is here to be asked about, responsibility for their action is also important, and to teach them not to give up, and more than anything, ma and pa will always be there for them.

Success is not determined by how many trophies that they won and how good they are in class.
Success is when they are able to help people who needs their help, is when they feel happy and contented, when they can share love to other people. That's success, because not everyone can do that.

The older u get, the shorter u can spend time with ur kids.
The younger u are when ure having kids means you have probability to spend more time with ur kids and watch them grow old and possibly to see grand childrens !

Having kids is a BIG responsibility and most of people did a good job on this.
IF other people can do that, why can't you ? Why can't I ?

Having kids will give you a hard time, but u will have all the happiness which u can't have if u don't have kids.
Having kids is tiring, but with a good management, it will be controllable.
Having kids doesnt mean u wont have any time for yourself, u just need to want to have time for yourself and let go the kids with the nanny.
Kids aren't porcelain. They're stronger than what u thought.
And not being with them 24hrs/day, 7 days/week doesn't make u a bad parents.
U need ur own time to refresh, and its good for you and ur kids.

So, why bother to be scared about having kids.

Everything will be going just fine.
All we need to do is work hard on it and believe it.

Have a nice Sunday, people :)