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Thursday, October 22, 2009

Thank you people who supported me....

So yesterday when Monkey call cheetah, cheetah asked me, do i want to talk with lion ??
Monkey said no need.

Half minutes after monkey hang up the phone, her phone is ringing, shown that cheetah is calling.
Turns out its Lion talking (shouting!)

"Monkey !! what do u mean by u dont have anything to talk with me ?? Are u crazy ?? We have so many things to discuss. Dont be "kurang ajar" to me ya !! Sialan banget kamu ya (same meaning like "F*ck u!")
What about the *** for this order hah ?? Have u decided ?!?
U shouldn't be so stupid, you know that ? Don't even dare to f*ck around with me ! Sialan sekali kamu ini !! bla bla bla bla....If you dont want to work, you dont need to wait till next year, u can quit now !!"

Monkey keep on saying "yes, yes, yes, i understand"

Phone hanged up.

Monkey's father turns out to be online, so Monkey, crying and typing at the same time, share this thing with his dad.
Monkey told him how Lion is angry, and Lion use Monkey's words against her. And that Lion said F*ck you to her.
Dad seems to be very upset about this.

Monkey share this with little bird and the deer, because they saw her crying...And they all supported her (thank you, friends)

Monkey went home and sleep

This morning, monkey receive an email from dad :
"Monkey, last night I called Tiger (Tiger is a good guy), and I told him how Lion been treating you and calling you. I told him that I dont mind if Lion called u stupid, or goblok, but saying
"F*ck u" is unacceptable. I raise you nicely, and I never say F*ck you to you. I told him that Lion must never have anyone come and shouting at him. Just because Lion give you a job, doesnt mean he can treat you like this. If you don't have any job, I still can feed you, no problem. Next time when he treats you like that, you should stand up for your self !! Don't just stay quiet"

Papa is really angry.And for me, its understandable. No one should treat ur kids like that. At all.
It's not proffesional.


Thank you papa Monkey, Monkey really appreciate it.

Monkey also share this story with her brother, and her brother was soooo angry to hear this so that he said his eyes was almost burst in tears because of ANGER.

Thank you Papa, and Brother Monkey, also to Little Bird and the Deer.
Next time, Monkey will just quit if Lion told him to Quit.
And Monkey will stand up and fight back.

We work for others, doesn't mean they can mistreated us.
Dignity...Walk out with dignity.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

APPROVED !!

Bill and I submit a petition for imigrant visa (fiancee visa) last July,
and today we just find out from an email sent by Zelah, saying that :
our petition got APPROVED !!!

Next step is to collect documents needed and apply for the visa !

Hooray !!!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

8 and i will be free

From today on, there will be another 8 months which I have to face.

After that, I will be free.
No more fear
no more terror
no more scolding

Whole my life I never scared to anyone like I am to you.
You are the biggest terror in my life
Source of my fear
I am very scared of you.

It is funny because u're such a funny person, but as u said urself, u are a double personality person.
And ur funny side can't cover ur "evil" side.

Everytime I my phone rings and it show that u call me, My heart beat so fast.
Not in the rhyme of fall in love,
but in the rhyme of fear
Sometimes its ok, but in other time, it ended with me crying on my bed.

When ur window popped out on my computer screen, I hate it the same amount as well.
Because u might not be here, I might not be able to hear ur voice, but ur words killed.
And more than once ur words put tears on me....

Sometimes when u r here, u yell at people.
Sometimes at me, sometimes on other people.
For me, the fear is the same.
I'm scared.
My heart raced when I hear u screaming

I never scared anyone like I'm scared of you.

But in another 8, I will be free.
And I will live in peace.

I just have to go through day by day... :)

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Action speak louder than words

Stop preaching, because action speak louder than words.

Always tell the truth, that's what u said.
But in fact, u taught me to lie.

Interesting, huh ?!

Ur life sucks, I'm not jealous on how many important people that u know, on how much money that u have.
Even though I'm not important, and I'm poor comparing to u, my life is great !

8 to go....

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Once upon a time in the Jungle

It all happens in the jungle.

There is a lion who don't like a deer.
The Lion thought the deer is useless, and that the deer doesn't learn enough of the jungle language.

Lion would like to get rid the deer out of the jungle.
So the lion told monkey " Monkey, I want you to put an eye on the deer. See whether he is usefull in the jungle or not, Listen to his language, always talk to him in jungle language, and see whether he understands or not. Then you tell me"

Monkey feels weird.
The deer is his best friend, but the Lion is the king of the jungle.

If the deer got kicked out from the jungle, means monkey's report got some part of it.
Monkey feel un-ease.

Monkey decided to talk with the deer.
To support him without really tell him whats going on.

Deer understands, and deer also feel that something "not so clean" is going on.

Deer show some improvement, but the Lion seems really dont like the deer.

We'll see whats the end of the story in the Jungle.

PS : if lion asked monkey to watch over deer,
means monkey also watched by other animal in the jungle.

Monkey feels strange...like some jungle politics is happening here.
Monkey likes lion less and less.

8,5 months to go

and it's all over...

Back to my peacefull life, no more fear that a person will yell at me

8,5 months to go.
I CAN DO IT !!

Friday, October 9, 2009

9 days at Indo (day 9 : getting ready)

This is the last day.
I'm totally sad to leave home.

I had cried since 2 nights before, I'm so scared to go back.
But I have to.
Another 10 months to go till I'm done with my promise. I can do it and time will fly fast.

Me and ma start our day by take me to the accupressure therapist. My right pinky hurts and powerless, I don't know why.
We got there, and she is kind of a psychic, she told me that I shouldn't take the job problem to home, she reminds me to re-connect with God, and to get my own me-time.
Basically she knows what bothers me a lot for the last 2 years, my job. The ultimate source of my stress and not so happy life.

She told me that when I got some problem, I shouldn't panic first. I should calm down first, and think about my problem wisely.

I should listen to her.

Oh and after the therapy, my pinky doesnt hurts anymore.

Then we took bill to the Metropolitan Mal Bekasi, to eat noodle, then Bill bought some Batik shirt and ties, I bought birthday presents for Chase.
I also got some book at Gramedia to bring back to Shanghai.
And Bill bought some Indonesia traditional music.

After that we went to Carrefour to buy food to bring back to Shanghai.
Me and Bill shop like crazy.
Lots of indomies, and seasonings, and sweet soysauce, Hot sauce, and paste for food.

Back home and pack our bag.
I stayed at my parents room the whole time. Really hard not to cry, because I was so sad to leave home. The peaceful life of mine.

Around 630pm, after saw my brother and my sister in law, we left to airport.
We stop by at Nasi uduk place, then to My grandma's house.
We ate there, and then I pray in front of my Grandma's, ask her for helping me for strength, etc.
Then we left.

Arrive at airport, check in, then seat a little bit with my parents.
10.30 I go inside to the gate, and my parents + bill go home.
I didn't cry.
I'm so proud of my self.

Thats almost the end....

9 days at Indo (day 8 : around Jakarta)

Today Pa take a day off from work, and he will come with us to go around Jakarta.

So first we drove to Soto Betawi Bang Mus at Jatinegara Area,it was delicious, Bill loves it sooooo damn much !

After that we went to Taman Mini Indonesia Indah, me and Bill wander around a little bit, while parents stay drove the car following us.

Then we saw the Komodo Dragon, and it was a fat one ! hahaha...but Bill was so excited to see the dragon,and so do I !!

We decided to watch the Imax Theater, and its about the Beautiful Indonesia.
The film is old, was made on 1978, but it was nice to see how beautiful my country is.
But also painful, because now Indonesia is kinda messy comparing to the old days.
It will get better, thats for sure :)

It was raining after the Imax, so I bought and umbrella and took the car to pick pa, ma and Bill.

Then I drove to Kelapa Gading Sports Mal, then we all get massage. It was nice and relaxing.
After 2 hours massage, I drove home, was so sleepy !
But I made it to arrive home safely...

It was a pleasant day with my family...

In the night time we got together again, with Maria-Rendy, Devi-Clemen, Me and Bill at Pizza Hut.
It was nice. Then we went to Devi's house.
It was so nice to talk with my 2 bestfriends since I was a kid.
And Bill is also nice to get himself busy, when we were talking.

Nice day. Busy but Nice :)

9 days at Indo (Day 7 : shopping)

I woke up early in the morning, and as always, walk straight to my parents bedroom :)
We do some errands there...hehe...then took a shower.

Papa left for a meeting during noon, and me, ma and bill went to the mal !
We go to Plaza Senayan, and then walk across to Senayan City.

There I saw ARI WIBOWO !!!
I love to see him since I was a kid !
He is soooo handsome and tall !! Jeez ! I was so speechless, and I was so shy I don't even dare to ask him to take pictures... -_-"

Well, thats it.

Three of us ate sour sally,mom shopped a little bit at The Body Shop then we go back again to PS.

There I bought 2 bags ^_____^
YAY to nice bags !

After shopping we ate at foodcourt. Me and ma got bakso, while Bill ate some kebab.

After that we went back home, and in the night time I went to Devi's house.
Seeing Devi and Celine again. It was fun :)

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

9 days at indo (day 6 : the WEDDING DAY !!)

So this is the day !!!

I woke up at 4.30am, took a shower then together with ma left to saloon at 5am !
Mom's hair done first, and papa picked her up. My hair done around 7, and I drove home by myself.
When I arrived at home, the photographers are there, ma, pa and bro + bill already dressed up !!
I was in a rush to get my make up done, and put my dress on.

I'm ready, then we took some pictures before my bro left to pick up anita at her house (together with Bill, the best man)
PS : Bill was so handsome with suit and tie !! He looks soooooooo tall and big



Pa-Bill-Bro-Ma in front of our house

They (brother and bill) left to pick up anita, me continue to finish my make up.
Around 10am we leave the house and go to the church.

It was nice to dress up and wear heels (eventho the heels was hell of pain !! ouch !)

Bride and Groom arrived, and Bill as well.

Ceremony took places. Everything went well.
The B & G drop some tears during the thank you parents time, its really touchy !








After the ceremony we went home and took a little rest, and by 2pm I went to saloon again and got my hair done (again !!)

Hair done, time to do some touch up on my make ups !
Add a little bit black eyeshadow in the corner of my eyes, and put the pink lipstick to match the dress.
Put on my dress, and I'm ready !!

I drove to the place with Bill, and picked up Edison (which turns out to be a big help) on the way.
It was raining REALLY HARD !!!
But at Kelapa gading, its all dry (thank god)

The party went well, food is good and everyone is happy.
I met some people that I know, and it was nice to see them all.

Before the Party's entrance


Make up all by ME ! HAHA !


Bill - Me - Edison
In the end of the day, I was so tired (but still have to drive home, I almost fall asleep)
Arrived home, clean up my make up, untie my hair, sleeep !!

CONGRATULATION Mario and Anita.

Photos can be seen  here

9 days at indo (day 5, Final Preparation)

In the morning, me, Ma and Pa took Bill to Hanindo Jakarta Office, because today Bill will gave a bicycle ride with Pak John. He arrived 1 hour late due to the problem with his bike's tire, then we left Bill with him. *Thanx, pak John*

Pak John and Bill

3 of us ate bubur at Kota area, the go home.
Arrived home I went to my parent's bedroom, and fall asleep there till my Aunties came :D
Aunt Keng, Aunt Yeye, And Uncle Jaya is at our house. We are going to prepare the flowers for my brother's house decoration. So there I am, trying to help. ^__^
Done with the flowers, we brought them to my brother's house, and put them as decoration. WE also helped to clean up the house, so they could stay there for the next day.
Tomorrow my bro is getting MARRIED !!!!

House is done at around 3, oh, and around 11 papa went to pick up Bill at the office. After that Bill ate lunch and went straight to bed. He just rode 43km on bicycle !!!
Pak John, thanx again !

In the night time we grab some dinner together (me, pa, ma and bill), then we went to bed earlier.
We got to wake up early tomorrow :)

Ciao !

9 days at indo (day 4, meeting with Rian and JOJOBA)

So this is the day that I've been waiting for.

Meeting #1
I will meet Rian (and his son Carlson) at Mal Taman Anggrek around 3pm.
Me and Bill left the house around 2pm, and got a little bit stuck in the traffic so that we were 10 mins late for the meeting.
Rian is my friend from a forum which I joined. I often talk with her on YM. This is the 1st time I will meet her.
She is very nice. She brought us Ayam Bumbu Rujak !! and when I met her at Pizza Hut, she was feeding Carlson.
Carlson, 3y.o is very cute. He speaks only english !! communication between him and Bill went really well. In fact, Bill likes Carlson, and he took good care of Carlson while we, girls walk and talk the whole time.


Handsome Carlson and his mom, Rian

We wander around the mall, and then we sat at O la la Cafe. Talk talk talk talk, and then Jojoba is coming, so Rian decided to go home.

We took her and Carlson to the lobby to take taxi, Carlson was carried by me, and then when he was about to get into the taxi (held by Rian now) he said "Aunty...Aunty..." *so cute !*

Not so long after Rian left, she called me and I can hear Carlson crying in the background... Haha, he misses us !!
And in the night time Rian text me and said "Carlson said that he misses uncle Wheel (Bill)"
Thats very sweet of him, and honestly, we love Carlson !!


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And the 2nd Meeting : JOJOBA !!!

They're my group of friends since college.
And that day I met them, most of them !!
Itine, Ika, Yatty, Ledy, Sherly (+ Yansen), Penju, Devi (+ Dennis) oh, of course Bill still there :D
We ate at Little Penang, Malaysian food, delicious !!
And then we talk talk talk and talk.
After that, we walked to Mothercare (yeah, baby shop !! I love !!) since my friends need to by some gift, and then we went to eat Tutti Fruti, a yoghurt place and it was fun. Ledy got the most from all of us, it was funny !! Good old Jojoba, always Noisy !!!

Edison and Ledy :D


Le-Devi-Sherly- Itine-Yatty-Ika-Me

Jojoba GIRLS

Since there were so many of them I didnt get the chance to talk too much with each of them. But just to be there and surrounded by friends and good food is good enough. I laughed a lot that day. My friends are so funny !
Bill got accompanied by Dennis, and seems like they have good conversation there.

I took Ika, Yatty and Edison with me and drove them to their house before I finally arrived home at 00.00 and just sleep to dead. lol

It was a fun day for me and Bill (and suppose for my friends too)

Bill got a new watch ! YAY !!

9 days at indo (day 1-3)

Day 1,
15.30, Arrive at Soekarno-Hatta airport, and after waiting forever for my luggage, I got out and have my parents waiting for me !! YAY !! Soooo happy to see them.

We go to eat Sundanese food (Gurame goreng, Sayur asem, Tempe-Tahu)right away, and then we went to Pluit area, to take a short rest at Hotel Sanno, while we are waiting for Bill to arrive at 11pm.

It was nice in the hotel, we just talk talk and talk all the time in bed. And when its 11, we left to pick up Bill, which apparently has been waiting for us for a little bit. Poor little thing !

Then we went home :)


Day 2
In the morning,around 8 me and Bill went to the Chinese embassy at Kuningan area. Bill needs to get his Chinese working visa done. Arrived there around 9, then go through all the process and find out that we should have some documents photocopied. So we try to find photocopy place at Mal Ambassador, but too early so that they're not open yet. So we went out, and find a photocopy place. There we met a girl, named Rosma who is also doing her working visa. She works in Ningbo, not so far away from Shanghai. Me and her talk all the time and we promise to keep in touch (which so far we did)
After the embassy stuffs are done, me and Bill walk around at ITC Kuningan and ate some delicious Indonesian food (we ate Masakan Manado, yummy !) Bill bought another white shirt for my brother's wedding, then since we're tired, we drove home.
Aroun 6pm, All of us, Me, Bill, Ma, Pa, My Brother and Anita (his soon to be wife) go to Kuningan area again, to meet my boss at his restaurant. He treats us there. The meeting time is at 7.30, but he arrived almost 1 hour late.
The dinner was good, Italian food. But honestly, I prefer to eat Indonesian food. Thank you very much. Boss loves the way Bill ate. Bill ate a lot !! :D

Day 3
Today we pretty much stay spent our time to do some errands. I need to get my dress fixed, and we go around here and there to make the last preparation for my bro's wedding. It was nice to be around my family all the time. And my aunties loves Bill. They said that he is a very good boy. Haha, and aunties love to feed Bill. They make him eat lots of stuffs, which he happily did. I love him for he is very very nice. :)
And it is nice that he is really willing to communicate with them, and my aunties, conversation conducted in English.

me with mom and Tante Keng

Night time is time for the General Rehearsal at the Church. So we all went there, my family, Anita's family, then at the church we met Tante Keng, Tante Nani, Oom Jaya and Jason my cousin who is still at 3rd grade, he is the ring bearer for the wedding.

Jason (the ring bearer) - Bill - Me at Church
The GR went well, Bill and I know what to do, so does the bride and groom to be, the family member and the ring bearer. It was so hot at the church !!
After GR 2 families (mine and Anita) went to eat at Bakmi Simpur, near our house. After that we went home and my brother took them to their house.

That is day 1-3